How important do you think physical/sexual attraction is in a relationship? We have since met in person a few times and while I don't find her ugly, I do not find myself very attracted to her.
We've been physical a few times and it was OK, not great. I don't feel a strong desire to even kiss her for example, she usually initiates physical contact/activity.
It is quite strange, but I actually think I like her more when we are apart and speak on the phone. We can speak for hours about anything and everything. But I don't have a yearning to see her or be with her in person.
The thought of "breaking up" with her is challenging because I am not the most social person and she has filled a large gap I feel like I've had in my life the last handful of years.
Perhaps I just need friends to help fill that gap and then need to find a partner I'm more excited about?
Can I ask you a follow up here?
How important do you think physical/sexual attraction is in a relationship? We have since met in person a few times and while I don't find her ugly, I do not find myself very attracted to her.
We've been physical a few times and it was OK, not great. I don't feel a strong desire to even kiss her for example, she usually initiates physical contact/activity.
It is quite strange, but I actually think I like her more when we are apart and speak on the phone. We can speak for hours about anything and everything. But I don't have a yearning to see her or be with her in person.
The thought of "breaking up" with her is challenging because I am not the most social person and she has filled a large gap I feel like I've had in my life the last handful of years.
Perhaps I just need friends to help fill that gap and then need to find a partner I'm more excited about?