I typically pull up alltrails or hiking project (or just Google) and find a location to get excited about first. If you're like me you way over prepare/plan in the beginning but realize how little you actually end up needing. I think self-reliance/confidence requires recognizing that when unexpected things happens your intuition will carry you through. I think the best way to achieve that is to not stress about the plan and just hit the road.

BUT I NEEEEED TO HAVE A PLAN! I HAVE TO HAVE A KIND OF TO-DO LIST TO WORK OFF OF, I NEED TO HAVE A START, A MIDDLE, AND AN END. 🥲

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What would happen if you went anyway?
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It'd be a short trip filled with planning while on the move, constant changes of mind and unnecessary stress, leading to me not being able to actually enjoy it.
Maybe I'm talking from experience, I don't know... 🥲
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Maybe, maybe not. All it takes is one good experience to change your perspective. I find plans = expectations, and if you go in with lower expectations you'll be pleasantly surprised more often.
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