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I have heard and read parents say things like, "Children don't need to know about money; they need to be children," or "They should focus on their studies, not on handling money."

I believe money is fundamental to life; most of the things we want and desire can be obtained with money. Money is part of our daily lives there is nowhere you can go where money isn't discussed or handled. So, why not teach our children about something so important from an early age? (Naturally, this should be done according to their level of understanding).

Perhaps I feel this way because my parents always talked to me about money in their own way. My dad took a simpler approach and would tell me to "save"; my parents, aunts and uncles, and grandmother would sometimes give me money for my birthday, Christmas, and other gift-giving occasions. Another way I managed to save was through the daily allowance I received for school breakfast; I would always keep the change, and once I had saved up enough to buy something I liked, I would spend it.

My dad swapped the "save" mindset for "spend it now" when Venezuela was hit by a brutal, ruthless hyper-devaluation; I remember it vividly that was the last time he gave me money. He said, "I always tell you to save, but this time, spend it immediately on something you want or need, because in a few days it won't be worth anything." Back then, the average citizen didn't have the habit of exchanging bolivars for dollars to hedge against devaluation. Don't judge me or my family for not switching from fiat to Bitcoin at that time; we simply didn't know it existed. Personally, I didn't go down this rabbit hole until 2020–2021.

My mom taught me another economic concept: "invest." She is a merchant at one time very successful with her clothing stores a woman who pulled herself up and achieved a great deal on her own. Without any formal education, she managed to figure out a basic formula without anyone ever teaching it to her: investing. From the time I was eight, she would tell me, "Daughter, I’ll provide the investment for this product, and you handle the selling. The profits are yours; then, you reinvest those earnings, and so on, until you grow your capital." You might ask, "How could a young girl work or sell things?" I was always at my mom's shop; I would watch and listen to her and learn how to deal with customers, and I tried to imitate her. My mom's idea was for me to sell my own product in her shop, under her supervision.

Now that I am an adult, I try to pass on to my daughter the same lessons my parents taught me, while also introducing concepts like currency devaluation, shrinkflation, inflation, and of course Bitcoin. She has her own wallets; when we play Monopoly or other games involving money like "playing store" we use sats and make payments via the Lightning Network. Her savings and allowance are also paid in sats. I always talk to my daughter about the importance of dividing money among savings, investments, and expenses. I might be overlooking something that I should also be teaching him/her.

360 sats \ 2 replies \ @Scoresby 13h

I don't give my kids an allowance. I do offer to pay them for recurring jobs. These are different than the chores they are expected to do as part of being in this family.

For instance, I pay them to clean out my car. I also pay them to help with some of the house care (if I'm doing a little renovation project or something). I pay my oldest (11 years) to do a full cleaning of the kitchen twice a week -- and she does a pretty great job.

I'm hoping as they get older I can pay them to do more things that help our family.

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This is also what we do

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That is one of the best ways for them to learn the value of earning money through effort and hard work. I’ve done similar things where my daughter does a task and I pay her for it; there was a time when I was in the clothing business, and I used to pay my daughter to wash hangers and organize the clothes (she was seven years old at the time).

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126 sats \ 0 replies \ @dagny761 11h

We do pay a weekly allowance as long as they have completed their assigned daily chores all week. The amount is divided into three wallets (30% Save, 50% Spend, and 20% Give). The Save and Spend are denominated in Bitcoin and they use the Spend to buy gift cards on BitRefill. Give is denominated in dollars so they can be creative with their generosity without only finding Bitcoin accepting charities.

We also have a stack of chore cards that can be completed for additional income if they are motivated to earn more.

We talk a lot about stewarding our resources well, financial responsibility, and how we are “more blessed to give” to others.

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I do! No strings attached. That’s because he might want to buy something extra during his recess break at the school canteen.

But I have also asked him every weekend if he wants to save some money in his bank account. So basically I’m encouraging to save my money in his bank account haha

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47 sats \ 1 reply \ @guerratotal 8h

I gave my son some coins one day for picking up his toys, and now he's extorting me... hahaha, he makes a mess and then picks them up and comes asking me for coins hahaha

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NOOO lol
Very clever of him; you made it very easy for him.

Only pay him when he does chores that aren't his responsibility, like washing your car or helping you with something related to your work.

Washing one's own plate, tidying up one's room, picking up toys, doing one's own laundry, and helping with household cleaning are not grounds for a monetary reward; these are responsibilities that come with being a family member, as everyone in the household should contribute to the chores. Obviously, everything is adapted to their age.

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5 sats \ 0 replies \ @catsoflady 11h -30 sats

I think teaching kids about money early is really important. Learning to save, earn, spend, and invest while they’re young can make a huge difference later in life.