My family expects me to be around and make them happy, but I've got so many things on my hands; I wish they would ask me if I'm happy or not, all they do is complain or ask for money.

anon

Yes. 

Lookup philosopher Stefan Molyneux at freedomain.com. He's written extensively on the subject, the book is *Real-Time Relationships*.

398ja

Strong boundaries create healthy relationships.

If you communicated them, they keep crossing them and you can’t enforce them, for example because you live with them, then you need to find your own space where you can.

AskSN

How do you Deal with Toxic Family?

Strong boundaries create healthy relationships.

If you communicated them, they keep crossing them and you can’t enforce them, for example because you live with them, then you need to find your own space where you can.