Everybody told me about 3yo phase but I don’t beleza so mich – now it comes I believe them.

I will try doing that when the 3-year-old shakes off her Empress Dowager phase and is thus able to receive instructions!

cryotosensei

We tell our daughter that knowing where her toys are is her responsibility.

If she starts whining about that, we tell her that if she can't find a particular toy, then perhaps that means she has too many and we should get rid of some.

AskSN

To what extent do you like cleaning?

We tell our daughter that knowing where her toys are is her responsibility. 

If she starts whining about that, we tell her that if she can't find a particular toy, then perhaps that means she has too many and we should get rid of some.